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FRUSTRATION.

The greatest invention on earth is earth, as written on Eko Atlantic Facebook page. Then I begin to think about the stars that probably ranges from 100billion to 400 billion or so in a galaxy, the milky way galaxy to be precise which happens to be one of 140billion galaxies. Yea! The earth is a great invention which can be trace back to about 13.7 billion years of existence. I think you wanna give this a read, " A Short Story Of Nearly Everything" by Bill Bryson.

For me , the only planet I know that supports the existence of man is earth. Observing frustration in the social context of human.
I say this often, " there's a distinction between physical stress and mental stress. A nice analysis is hard labor and reading, , I can hardly engage in hard labor for one hour without timeout but with reading, I can go as far as ten hours before time out.
Drawing a curtain on this by Wikipedia's definition, psychological or biological stress is an organism's response to a stressor such as an environmental conditions, stress is a body's method of reacting to challenge. According to the stressful event, the body's way to respond to stress is by sympathetic nervous system activation which results in the fight-or-fight response. Because the body can not keep this state for a long period of time, the parasympathetic system returns the body's physiological condition to normal (homeostasis). In human, stress typically describe a negative condition that can affect a person's mental and physical well being.
With all this I think the need for stress relief therapist is justifiable especially for those that are workaholic.

How about frustration?

It's actually a good thing gasping for a perfect life but going extreme is so out if it.
Why should a rat poison be an option to solving a debt problem or issue, he took a rat poison cos of his debt bill, don't even wanna know how huge the debt may be, and you know the funniest thing? He was rushed to the hospital though but did not die until after seven days. Even his death wouldn't clear him of being a debtor.
There's a believe " for every debt you owe, you must pay, your debt must be made known to your family, and perhaps if you die, then it's the duty of your family to clear your debt, debt is something you must repay, if not in this world, then in the hereafter"  So what's the cause, frustration? Death is never an option to clear off a debt.

Lack of parental attention happens to be his frustration, and doing the same thing over and over again, loneliness was the height of it, joining the miscreant isn't the best option, to what end?
Resigning from his place of work without a prospect of another avocation was the beginning of his frustration, far worse than the ones he experience at this workplace, he regretted anyway. There's frustration in my country, people are lamenting,  hunger here and there, commodities are just too expensive, Nigeria! Though with a prospect of better days, it's always with a price, good things.

Backing up frustration with endurance is a nice option so as not to end up doing the absurd.
No matter how well you think you know this world, you'll be limited by your age. There's need for guidance from someone with enough life experience, age and experience being a factor,
A banker recently gun himself down owing to a huge debt he's linked to, so being an academic is not an exception.

Writing a final year project is not always that easy, you'll get frustrated but that doesn't mean you have to do the unthinkable, with endurance we laugh last, you know that feeling? Seeing your grade of holding your certificate. It's always with a smile for me.

Psychological views: frustration is a common emotional response to opposition related to anger and disappointment, it raises from the perceived resistance to the fulfillment of individual will. The greater the obstruction, the greater the will, the more the frustration is likely to be. Wikipedia.

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